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OUR JOURNEY

This is our family's journey- the story of our daughter's fight with cancer. Along the way, we will have some tears, lots of love, and even more prayers going up to heaven. We know that our Heavenly Father is aware of us. We know that he will help us fight, fill our hearts with peace, and send angels to give us aid. We send praise to HIM. Join us in this battle. This battle of courage, determination, and most of all faith in God that all is well and will be well.
This is where I will record my feelings- raw, real, and unfiltered. Welcome all.
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Monday, May 27, 2013

Round 2...

So last Friday (May 17), we were admitted to the hospital for our first round of high dose methotrexate.  It is a chemo drug that runs for 24 hours and then we can't leave the hospital until it clears her body.  To our doctor's surprise she was almost cleared Sunday night and by Monday morning (May 20) we were out.  Not too bad.  I can handle a short weekend stay.
So we had four glorious days at home.  Bike riding, picnics, Tyrell's kindergarten graduation, lots of cousins to play with, and so much fun in the sun.
Then on Friday (May 24) , we once again were readmitted for round 2 of this second phase of her road map.  We had the same thing, 24 hour drip of high dose methotrexate.  Pretty boring.  Other then early this week, Miss Evalette had a bit of mucositis in her mouth.  She had one big ulcer at the roof of her mouth and wasn't eating well and was in some pain.  The doctors told me that if her mucositis got worse and if she wasn't eating or doing well that we wouldn't be able to go home before our next readmit for the last round of chemo of phase two.  We would be in the hospital for over 3 weeks.  I flipped.  Then I calmed down.  As soon as we got settled in our room, I found the LDS reps that were at the hospital and asked if they could give her a blessing.  They did.  It was so beautiful.  The next day, Evalette was eating great and feeling good.  The doctors looked in her mouth and her ulcer was gone.  Truly a miracle.  What a blessing.  She also needed a blood transfusion and IGIV (a blood product also).   They went well.  This was Evalette's third transfusion and she will need many, many more.  It is amazing to see her go from pasty, white coloring to pink, red coloring in her face after the transfusion.  So cool!
And we once again cleared the methotrexate quickly and came home this morning, just in time for Memorial Day.
Grandma and Grandpa Sparks came down for the day, so we spent the day at the Spanish Fork reservoir, swimming and playing.  It was nice to be outside. And thanks mom and dad for driving 7 hours, just to spend 4 hours with us.
Now we have four days until we go back to the hospital for our last round of chemo in phase 2.  We will be in the hospital for count recovery...meaning 5 days of chemo (which will wipe out her immune system) and then we can't go home until her immune system starts to perk back up basically.  Doctors are telling to plan on two weeks at our home on the hill.  I say, we are always full of surprises!!!  Life is busy, but full of blessings and lots of love!

Thank you Melissa and Jen, some of my good friends from home, for the wonderful visit and gifts.  Melissa, thank you for taking time out of your family vacation to visit us.  You and your family brightened our day!  And Jen, your letter was just what I needed and the gifts made me feel so pampered and thought of.  You two are wonderful.  Thanks.



Saturday, May 25, 2013

Our Good News...

As you read in the letter from Evalette,
our baby is in remission.
This means that there are less than .01% cancer cells in her bone and blood.
It doesn't change anything, as in the length of chemo treatments,
or anything like that, 
but it does mean that her prognosis looks good.
They anticipate that she will do great with chemo.
Although their is no cancer cells showing up in her blood right now,
the chemo treatments that we will be doing until the end of March 2015 
will help to prevent a relapse of the Leukemia.
And we don't want a relapse because that would mean a bone marrow 
transplant, radiation, and more chemo.
We are grateful for this blessing.
We know that it is in large part to all of your faith and prayers.
Thank you.
Now I am off to do a little dance of joy with my baby girl.
So happy right now!!!
Here are some of our happy faces.
Doesn't she shine!



Friday, May 24, 2013

From Evalette-

Hello Everyone-
Just wanted to say hi.
And thanks.
Thanks for the support,
thanks for the visits,
thanks for the gifts, 
thanks for being there for me,
my mom and dad,
and my brothers.
We needed your support and strength 
and you gave it.  
Thanks for the never ending prayers in my behalf.
They have been heard in heaven.
Sometimes I feel sick 
and sometimes I cry, 
but I know that all is well.
Mommy rocks me and is with me always.
Daddy adores me and loves me always.
And when I am away from him, we talk on the phone.
My brothers, they miss me when I am gone, but oh how they love me when I am home.
Life is good.
I am doing well.  
I live moment to moment.
And right now,
peek-a-boo is fun, 
 and the handlebars on this crib are tasting mighty fine!
 So keep the prayers coming!
But know that I am happy as can be 
because my life is good, 
my life is happy, and 
tomorrow is always a new day!
 Love to you all.
And mommy says to tell you,
the results are in...
I am officially in REMISSION!
Don't know what that means, but it must be good,
cause mommy is jumping up and down.
Love,
Evalette Rose

Monday, May 20, 2013

Until Next Time...

Goodbye,
Primary's.
Thanks for letting me go home.
I will enjoy my four days off.
No poking,
no prodding,
no masks,
no machines,
no yucky chemo,
and nobody to wake me up at night.
Hallelujah!!!
See you on Friday.
Until next time....
 (This is Evalette and Taitana, our wonderful cleaning lady on POD B.  She adores Evalette and Evalette adores her.  She didn't want to see us go, but was so excited when she heard that we wouldn't be away long.  We love you, Taitana!)

Sunday, May 19, 2013

Hospital Life-

Our life at the hospital consists of:
ZOFRAN- our anti nausea medication, every 6 hours.
 METHOTREXATE- our chemo drug of choice as of this stay. 24 Hour drip 
 HEAVY DUTY GLOVES- our protection against the nasty chemo
 BIOTENE- mouth wash; good oral care will help prevent "mucositis" or horrible mouth sores
 SANITIZERS- lets just say, germs be gone.  We sanitize over and over and over again.
 THE CATHETER- our new best friend; somewhat of a beast to deal with, but we are grateful that it has saved Evalette's skin from irritation from the chemo.

IV LINES- constantly in use; they tend to get tangled with the catheter line, but we manage.
THE STETHOSCOPE- the doctors and nurses use this for their assessment of Evalette multiple times a day.  Usually she slaps their hands away...she prefers not to be touched.  But she is learning and someday might become a doctor herself. 
 HOSPITAL FOOD- Ravioli and "Fresh and Juicy" smoothies are the going favorites right now.
 HOSPITAL GOWN- chemo drugs stain clothes...enough said.  
 FOOD STAINS- litte girls stain clothes when they spit out their food; chemo makes food taste yucky.
 ROCKING- our favorite place where we rock and rock; sometimes all day long.
 VISITORS- we love visitors.  They brighten our day. Grandpas, grandmas, aunts, uncles, cousins, friends, or anyone.  Welcome all.  Come and play!
 FACETIME- We enjoy video chatting with grandma and grandpa and daddy and the boys.  Technology is wonderful!
 Sometimes we are sad, frustrated, not feeling good, and tired of being poked...
 Sometimes we are silly, make faces, and play with toys
But usually, we are just plain adorable, happy, and deal with it all like champs!
HAPPY SUNDAY!